Situation cloudy. Precipitation expected.

organizational change warning signs

Sometimes, you can sense the shift before it becomes visible. The mood in the office – or across the virtual grid – tightens and conversations flatten. There’s a hesitancy in tone, a retreat behind polite professionalism, and an unmistakable heaviness that settles into the rhythm of the day.

It’s not one event, but a collection of cues. Subtle at first, then unmistakable. Trusted colleagues begin to leave, and not just at the entry level. Leadership changes are announced with carefully chosen words that say very little. Benefits are quietly scaled back and team events are postponed or vanish altogether. Communication grows sparse, and the familiar cadence of alignment and clarity is replaced with a kind of organizational static.

You notice that decisions take longer and that initiatives once championed with enthusiasm are now left adrift. There’s no dramatic explosion – just a slow accumulation of pressure, like a sky thickening with storm clouds. And even if no one names it directly, everyone knows: something is shifting.

This is the prelude to disruption. A brewing instability that precedes a larger unraveling.

The question is: how should HR respond when the signs are there, when the internal forecast suggests precipitation is not only possible – but likely?

HR prepares – not with panic, but with discernment. It moves toward clarity rather than speculation and creates intentional space for honest dialogue – spaces where concerns can be aired before they calcify into disengagement. HR becomes the steward of organizational coherence, working to realign not only structures but relationships, trust, and the day-to-day cadence of how work happens.

It begins by reevaluating the organization’s internal climate – not through data alone, but through dialogue, observation, and contextual listening. What are employees experiencing in this moment? Where is silence replacing feedback, or fatigue replacing engagement? What unspoken narratives are shaping morale?

HR asks the right questions – not only of employees, but of leadership. It challenges vague messaging, presses for transparency, and advocates for decisions that are not only operationally sound but emotionally intelligent.

Above all, HR refuses to ignore the signals. Because the role of HR is not to weather the storm in silence – it is to name it, prepare for it, and guide others through it with steady hands.

There will always be organizational storms. But when HR leads with foresight, presence, and courage, the forecast – no matter how cloudy – becomes navigable.

*****

Real HR: The Book Launch

Real HR

This is a milestone day for me.

Real HR: What It Is, What It Can Be, and How to Get There is officially out in the world.

I didn’t write this book because I had all the answers. I wrote it because I’ve spent years navigating the contradictions and complexities of this field – balancing strategic goals with human realities, decoding executive intent, and trying to make sense of systems that often feel more performative than purposeful.

This book is for the HR professionals who think deeply and care fiercely. For the ones who see the cracks and are still committed to building something better. It’s for those who want to approach this work with integrity, clarity, and a sharper sense of direction.

Real HR is part field guide and part personal reflection. It’s grounded in real experience and decades of observation – with a bit of nuance, critique, and a NSFW word or two (maybe three). It’s the book I’ve needed at several points in my career – and it might be the one you need right now.

Inside, you’ll find reflections on:

  • what HR is, and what it’s capable of becoming
  • the profession’s recurring identity crisis
  • how systems shape our actions – and how we shape them in return
  • what it means to remain fully present in the work

There’s honesty. There’s insight. And there’s an unwavering belief that HR can be better – not in theory, but in practice.

If you’ve ever found yourself rewriting the script while everyone else sticks to the bullet-pointed orthodoxy, this book is for you. If you’ve ever wanted someone to say out loud what you’ve only muttered under your breath in the breakroom, this book is for you. And if you’ve ever questioned whether you’re the only one doing this work with your whole brain and a working moral compass – this book is definitely for you.

You can grab your copy here and I’d love to hear what resonates.

Here’s to what’s real. Let’s keep building it.

It’s Not a Meeting, It’s a Huddle! (and we still hate it)

meeting fatigue

Why does everyone hate work meetings?

We take the hatred and meeting fatigue for granted, don’t we? It’s the basis of half the workplace memes on Instagram and three-quarters of the jokes in any decent office sitcom. The mere utterance of the cliche “a meeting that could’ve been an email” is guaranteed to earn a knowing nod from anyone who’s ever worn a lanyard or opened a Zoom invite.

Many of us have tried to fix it … mostly by rebranding; changing the language in hopes of changing the experience.

“It’s not a meeting – it’s a chat!”  (A huddle. A regroup. A quick sync. A touchpoint. A round-up. A stand-up.)

But no matter what we call it, a badly run meeting is still a badly run meeting. If we’re gathering to restate what was in an email, read a dashboard aloud, or schedule yet another meeting … we’ve lost the plot.

Why We Hate Them (sometimes with good reason)

  • They eat up time and rarely give it back
  • They lack purpose, structure, or clarity
  • They exist because “we always have a Thursday check-in”
  • They drift, spiral, or become low-key turf wars
  • They replace actual progress with performative presence

No one hates a meeting that solves a problem or serves a purpose. What we hate are the ones that fill time not needs – and somehow spawn three more meetings in their wake.

But Meetings Still Matter

But – and this is important – even bad meetings can still serve a purpose. A good purpose. Meetings anchor a team and align a group. They give people a place to read the room, voice concern, ask for help, or just feel slightly less alone in the workplace.

Even a five-minute check-in can make a difference when the alternative is sending messages into the void and hoping someone’s paying attention. Humans are relational. Even at work. Especially at work.

Meetings (when done right) are the connective tissue of a team. They give us rhythm, an opportunity to reset, and sometimes a place to laugh at someone’s dog getting the zoomies just slightly off camera.

But we can still improve our meetings.  Think about:

  • Being honest about what it is. If it’s an info dump, send it in writing. If it’s a brainstorm, label it that way. If it’s just to touch base, ask if an update in a Teams Channel would suffice.
  • Defaulting to less. Fewer people. Less time. Minimal handouts. The more you constrain the shape, the sharper the purpose becomes.
  • Starting and ending with clarity. What are we here to do? What decisions must we make? What’s next?
  • Making space for real connection. Leave a little room for human moments and connecting. Not “forced” fun and games. Just humanity.

I’m sure we’ll keep calling them syncs and stand-ups and round-ups. I have a standing Monday meeting with a colleague that I’ve labeled “Hullabaloo” in our calendars, and I have no desire to change the name.

But maybe what matters isn’t the name. It’s whether we respect the time, the purpose, and the people in the room.

Call it whatever you want. Just don’t make it pointless.

*****

Boho HR: Unconventional by Design

bohemian HR

The other day, as I was fastening a floaty scarf onto the handle of my over-sized slouchy handbag, I thought to myself “I feel positively bohemian!” Naturally, this association with boho-chic popped into my brain with an accompanying vision of the Olsen twins.

But bohemianism, as a social and cultural movement, is about much more than fashion or home décor. Originating from the French bohème, the term was originally used to describe non-traditional lifestyles in the mid 19th-century, especially of artists, writers, journalists, musicians and actors in major European cities.

Often portrayed as embracing free love, frugality, and simple living, a bohemian (informally referred to as “boho”), is someone with artistic or intellectual tendencies, who lives and acts with minimal regard for conventional rules of behavior.

Are there HR bohemians? Is Boho-chic HR a thing? Can it be?  And what, pray tell, might that look like?

The Belief System

Boho HR is for those who believe that HR should be more about people and less about policy. HR where we have more improvisation and less institutional script. Flexible, eclectic, and intuitive, it trusts good judgment over rigid rules. It’s not anti-structure – it’s pro-human.

Boho HR is when you believe:

  • The annual performance review isn’t sacred.
  • Hiring can be relational, not transactional.
  • Employee experience is a mood and a rhythm – not just a NPS.
The Look

Boho HR is like Ella Emhoff who refuses to shave her armpits which has led her to become the representation and symbol, to many, of the end of civilization. The discomfort isn’t about her – it’s about the unspoken rules she refuses to follow.

Boho HR makes people squirm in the same way. It doesn’t mean it’s wrong. It means it’s visible.

Boho HR doesn’t wear a lanyard and probably makes the people who love 5-page Dress Code policies extraordinarily uncomfortable. It’s HR that smells a little like cedar and maybe burns sage at the end of a hard week. And no, that doesn’t mean it’s soft. It means it’s considered. It means it’s built for people who are motivated, multi-layered, and real.

When you’re the only one painting outside the lines, some people will assume you don’t know how to draw. That’s the cost. But the payoff is a day-today existence that makes you feel ALIVE again.

The Design

Boho HR is intentional – not accidental. It’s about rejecting cookie-cutter systems in favor of something more fluid and more human. It’s not about being different for the sake of being different though; it’s about being honest about what truly serves people – and calling out what doesn’t.

Choosing the Boho path means letting go of a certain kind of corporate validation. Boho HR doesn’t win awards for compliance efficiency. It doesn’t post perfectly timed LinkedIn thought leadership (3 times per week! Timed for maximum engagement!!) posts.  Boho HR is the one likely to say “We decided not to rank people this year,” or “We rewrote the handbook in plain language.”

Boho HR might get polite smiles in a room full of traditionalists while being told “that’s interesting” … in a tone that feels more condescending than curious.

The Style

Sometimes, if you’re a Boho HR professional, you’ll be the only HR pro you know who isn’t benchmarking everything. You’ll want to tell a story when everyone else is citing data. You’ll want to ask how it feels before someone else asks how it performs.

And you’ll wonder if you’re the weird one.

You’re not.

You’re just building from a different center.

You’re creating HR practices that flow like a good playlist and settle into your soul like a deep breath. Practices that honor art and imperfection. Systems that support people rather than stifle them.

HR can look like a painting. Or a poem. Or a floaty, pre-Raphaelite gauzy top paired with worn-in leather boots and a top hat.

That’s Boho HR. And if you’re out there doing it? Keep on keeping on.

*****

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